Oliver Sarkic was having breakfast in Mauritius, simply three days into his honeymoon, when his telephone rang.
It was his father, Bojan. In a faltering voice, he informed Oliver that his twin brother, Matija — the Montenegro and Millwall goalkeeper — had collapsed.
“I used to be shocked however then his subsequent sentence was ‘and he died’,” Oliver remembers. “I didn’t actually consider it. It was devastating.”
Matija was simply 26 years previous. The reason for his demise continues to be to be decided however his household have been informed he suffered sudden coronary heart failure. He had been on vacation along with his accomplice Phoebe, the previous Aston Villa defender Oscar Borg and his girlfriend.
Matija died 10 days after he was named man of the match for Montenegro in a pleasant towards Belgium and only a week since he acted as greatest man at Oliver’s wedding ceremony, together with their older brother Danilo and a childhood pal.
“That was the final time I noticed him alive,” Oliver informed The Athletic. “It’s bittersweet however it’s an incredible final reminiscence to have.
“We have been at all times collectively. There was no Matija with out Oliver and no Oliver with out Matija. We got here as a bundle. He was half of me. I’ll at all times have nice recollections of him however I want we might make new ones like we did on the wedding ceremony.”
Matija, a considerate, studious and vastly common participant for each membership he represented, was coming ever nearer to fulfilling his dream to play within the Premier League having simply loved a superb season with Millwall within the Championship.
That dream has now been cruelly snatched away, leaving his household and mates struggling to return to phrases with seeing a younger man within the prime of his life taken far too quickly.
After ending the season with Millwall, Matija flew to Turkey after which Spain with Andy Marshall, his goalkeeping coach since his time at Aston Villa, to arrange for Montenegro’s pleasant match towards Belgium on June 5.
For Matija, who spent nearly all of his childhood in Belgium, it was a recreation that carried additional which means and gave him the prospect to line up towards previous mates from Anderlecht’s academy, together with Wout Faes and Orel Mangala.
The additional coaching paid off, as he pulled off a string of excellent saves and was named man of the match in Montenegro’s 2-0 defeat. It was, as Bojan tells The Athletic, “the perfect recreation of his life”.
Sarkic makes certainly one of a number of advantageous saves in his final match, for Montenegro towards Belgium (Peter De Voecht / Photograph Information through Getty Pictures)
Tragically, it was additionally his final.
Matija was given permission to overlook Montenegro’s subsequent recreation, a pleasant towards Georgia, to attend the marriage of Oliver — additionally an expert footballer, having had spells at Leeds United and Blackpool — in Guimaraes, northern Portugal, on June 8.
Afterwards, he returned to the UK earlier than travelling to Montenegro for a mini break. Having landed within the nation on Friday, he spent a day on the seaside and proudly confirmed off his newly furnished house within the coastal city of Budva on the Adriatic coast.
Nonetheless, within the small hours of Saturday morning, Matija awakened feeling unwell and collapsed shortly afterwards. Borg’s girlfriend, a nurse, administered CPR till an ambulance arrived and paramedics then tried their very own resuscitation, however with out success.
“It was an on the spot demise,” Bojan stated. “He was not struggling.”
Bojan was informed his son had handed away at 6am and it fell to him to tell Oliver. He and his new spouse, Natacha, instantly minimize quick their honeymoon, flying again to Montenegro through Dubai and Albania, to attend his twin brother’s funeral on Monday.
“The traditions listed below are that brothers place their brother into the coffin,” stated Oliver. “So me and my brother and the 2 employees from the morgue picked Matija up and positioned him gently within the coffin. He seemed peaceable and he was in his nationwide staff equipment.
“Within the house of per week, we noticed the identical individuals (who had been at his wedding ceremony). We went from the best excessive to the bottom low.”
A memorial service was organised the next day by the Soccer Affiliation of Montenegro, attended by the nation’s president, the place Oliver gave a tribute.
“I stated in my speech that I’ll at all times keep in mind him as he was final: a tall, good-looking, good man, a loving brother and a significantly gifted goalkeeper, hardworking and devoted.”
Matija was buried along with his grandparents, Beba and Alija, in the principle cemetery in Podgorica, the capital of Montenegro.
“They each believed in him a lot,” Bojan stated. “My mom selected the identify Matija and my father was a footballer who at all times stated he would make it as an expert. Now he’s with each of them.”
Matija, who was fluent in English, French, Dutch and Montenegrin, was born in Grimsby and spent his early childhood in London earlier than his father’s work for the Montenegrin authorities took the household to Brussels when he was seven. His mom, Natalie, labored as a authorities official and British diplomat and now runs her personal enterprise combating disinformation within the media.
Soccer was at all times an obsession, and Oliver remembers how he and Matija would commute an hour and a half throughout Brussels to high school, loaded up with their books and soccer equipment, and get house at 10pm after coaching.
Matija (proper) and his twin brother Oliver on the Anderlecht academy in 2004 (Oliver Sarkic)
Matija started life as a defender however switched to goalkeeper when a spot wanted filling someday for his Sunday league staff, Chelham, a play on the names Chelsea and Fulham. There he discovered his calling, modelling his recreation on Claudio Taffarel; as a 10-year-old, he would research movies of the Brazilian goalkeeper, attempting to choose up ideas.
“You wouldn’t count on a 10-year-old to enter such element, however that was him,” Bojan remembers. “He turned actually skilled, eager about each element. He needed perfection.”
Matija returned to England after signing for Aston Villa in 2015, the start of a nomadic journey by the English league system that included mortgage spells at Wigan Athletic, Stratford City and Havant & Waterlooville, in addition to Scottish membership Livingston.
He finally signed with Wolverhampton Wanderers in 2020 earlier than happening additional loans to Shrewsbury City, Birmingham Metropolis and Stoke Metropolis. Final July, he joined Millwall on a everlasting deal and eventually appeared to have discovered his house from house.
Sarkic in motion for Aston Villa in 2017 (Malcolm Couzens/Getty Pictures)
Each team-mate and supervisor spoken to by The Athletic spoke of an impeccably behaved particular person, who had time for everybody and remembered those that had helped him. At Stratford, for instance, he remained involved with individuals on the membership even when taking part in at a a lot greater degree.
He was additionally a devoted skilled, decided to succeed in the highest of his recreation. He spent hours, for instance, mastering the side-on volley out of his arms that stays low by the air.
He was additionally remembered for his means to mild up a room, sense of humour and mischief, infectious vitality, love of journey and good espresso. He was so enthusiastic about espresso that he had a station at house, christened the ‘Sarkic Lounge’.
“Every thing he did was enjoyable,” Bojan recalled. “He did all of it with a smile and that was him. My mom was an actress, and he or she referred to as Matija ‘Granny’s actor’ as a result of he was at all times making enjoyable round her, dancing, doing foolish little issues.
“His favorite was Borat (Sacha Baron Cohen’s movie character), and as soon as at Millwall, after they went out at Christmas, they dressed him as Borat. He did one thing related at Birmingham: he purchased a plastic Lamborghini and got here into the dressing room dressed like Troy Deeney, as a result of Troy had a Lamborghini. It was at all times to have a little bit of enjoyable and make individuals smile.”
At Wolves, he solid a detailed friendship with membership captain Max Kilman.
“We immediately received alongside,” Kilman stated. “We had related morals in life. He was very humble, labored actually exhausting, needed to be the perfect and had labored his approach up the ladder in soccer. He simply needed to maintain bettering.
“He would exit of his approach to assist everybody — not simply in soccer however in life. He spoke 4 languages so when the supervisor — Bruno Lage and Julen Lopetegui for some time — would clarify one thing, Mati would translate for the French boys within the squad.
“Everybody would say the identical: you may’t say a foul phrase about him. We constructed up an actual connection. It’s so unhappy.”
Kilman stated he was planning to meet up with Matija this summer season in London as soon as he’d received again from his holidays.
Fellow goalkeeper Harry Burgoyne, who spent a season with Matija at Shrewsbury City, remembers having breakfast with Matija each morning and taking it in turns to purchase smoked salmon.
Sarkic taking part in for Shrewsbury City in 2020 (Nathan Stirk/Getty Pictures)
“The membership didn’t present it however Mati had a take care of the physios the place if he saved a clear sheet they’d convey him a espresso,” stated Burgoyne, who additionally performed for Wolves.
“Then it was smoked salmon and we began to get pleasure from it so we’d convey it in. He at all times managed to discover a higher high quality smoked salmon so it was at all times good when it was his flip since you knew you have been getting the perfect of the perfect. He additionally launched me to a Montenegro-style espresso, which was very robust.”
Matija’s willpower to extract each final drop of his expertise was apparent to all who knew him. Oliver remembers how he would have a chalkboard in his kitchen the place he would jot down issues he needed to enhance. “He would have a look at that every single day and that may encourage him to maintain pushing for his objectives,” he stated.
At Birmingham, Matija had a difficult begin to his profession. However slightly than shrinking, or retreating into himself, he made some extent of looking for counsel from these round him.
“He had made just a few errors and he got here to myself and Andy Marshall and requested questions,” stated Neil Etheridge, one other goalkeeper on Birmingham’s books on the time. “It confirmed how humble he was to hunt recommendation from individuals who had been within the recreation longer than him. From there, he kicked on once more and a few video games later he was again on it with man-of-the-match performances once more.”
For the managers he performed below, Matija was the right participant: desirous to study and somebody who might take in and retain data in a short time.
“He was very skilled, respectful and well-mannered; a supervisor’s dream,” stated Lee Bowyer, his supervisor at Birmingham. “You knew when he stepped onto the pitch that he’d offer you every thing he might. As a personality across the place, he was well-liked. Everybody revered him. He was one of many good guys.”
Matija Sarkic was preferred and revered in any respect his golf equipment (Nathan Stirk/Getty Pictures)
Gary Holt, his supervisor at Livingston, agreed.
“He was a younger man with an previous head on his shoulders,” he stated. “He was very respectful, very humble however very pushed. He had superb perception in his personal means. If I ever wanted somebody to do one thing he’d at all times say, ‘No downside, gaffer’. He was a credit score to his household, the best way he behaved, the best way he carried out himself, the best way he carried himself.
“When he first signed, we sat him down and informed him he wasn’t going to begin,” Holt stated. “He was actually irritated. He stated, ‘I settle for it however I’m higher than him (the opposite goalkeeper).’ I assumed, ‘Truthful play to you’. He didn’t down instruments, he didn’t throw a huff as a result of as a younger man; it’s simple to try this. He fought exhausting in coaching, he pushed the opposite goalkeeper, he wasn’t unfavourable, he was hungry to get in. And when he received in, he was completely excellent.”
When Matija began his footballing journey, he had two important goals. One was to symbolize his nation, which he achieved, profitable 9 senior caps. The opposite was to play within the Premier League, an ambition he was so near realising.
For his heartbroken household, after all, not seeing Matija realise his large potential as a footballer is simply a part of their grief. The outlet left of their lives by his demise won’t ever be crammed.
Matija (proper) and Oliver after a recreation for Montenegro Below-19s towards France (Courtesy of Oliver Sarkic)
“Nobody ever believed we have been twins and the following query we have been requested was at all times who was older,” Oliver stated. “The reply was that Matija was older by three minutes. However that query of who’s older isn’t going to be requested once more. Now I’m older than him and that has hit me exhausting as a result of I used to be at all times the youngest one. And now his journey has ended.”
Extra reporting: Gregg Evans
(High photograph: Getty Pictures; design: Eamonn Dalton)
